<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Life on wyrd</title><link>https://wyrd.im/tags/life/</link><description>Recent content in Life on wyrd</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-ie</language><lastBuildDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2026 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://wyrd.im/tags/life/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>badness</title><link>https://wyrd.im/posts/badness/</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://wyrd.im/posts/badness/</guid><description>&lt;p>&lt;em>What is not in doubt is that I have done things that cross any reasonable threshold of badness.&lt;/em>&lt;/p>
&lt;h2 id="blather">blather&lt;/h2>
&lt;p>My life coach says of themselves, &amp;ldquo;I am not a bad person, but I&amp;rsquo;ve done bad things&amp;rdquo;. It&amp;rsquo;s an effective mantra&lt;span class="org-target" id="org-target--mantras-p">&lt;/span>: shut down the ruminations, and replace with a more truthful reduction.&lt;/p>
&lt;h3 id="integrating">integrating&lt;/h3>
&lt;p>I played with it for a while, but what feels more wholesome to me, to integrate is &amp;ldquo;I am a bad person, because I&amp;rsquo;ve done bad things&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/p></description></item></channel></rss>