how 'r ya

down here in the wilds of kerry, they call us how-r-yas.

Not just a greeting–an identity.


A friend asked me once: why do you people say "how are you?" when you don't want to know?

She was right, as usual.


I never did slow down long enough to take heed of the importance of such things to friends.

The scripts were to run for a long time yet.


When I finally had the same experience, I (as is habit) did the work in both directions, and switched to "hey" as both greeting and response.

In a very real way, I put someone who mattered most, very last.


How 'r ya is the form of a question with none of the function. Connection performed. Connection avoided.


I'm still a Jacín, but autistic-p1 2 af before I'm even male, let alone Irish or a Dubliner.

happy autism day.

stay curious.


1

I will continue to be a predicate2 until the overlords deem it acceptable.

2

In Lisp, a predicate is a function that tests whether something is true, conventionally suffixed with -p. See GNU Emacs Lisp: Coding Conventions.